About Me

I’m a recently and happily divorced woman living in Chicago, Illinois here to talk about the process of divorcing my husband of three years. He was an abusive, gaslighting, tormenter of women who now finds himself living in his mother’s basement in Naperville. Scorned woman, victim, bitch: none of these words describe me. I came out of a terrible situation with a sociopath healthy, hopeful, and independent.  

 This blog is, for the most part, my attempt to process what I went through with ex-husband, to put it behind me in a historical context, and to document something that is plan difficult to document.